Its Really Your Fault For Real For Real..I mean, If You Wanna Be Real, It Is..I’m Just Saying.

So, this post is going to be a rant/rave etc…

It seems that whatever happens to a woman regarding relationships, its her fault. No blame could/should ever be placed on the man as his type of behavior is expected. Usually women think with their heads, hearts and emotions. Men tend to think with their penes. (correct plural use of penis) Men can go around with their dicks poked out ready to hump anything that hops on; however, its OK, because he’s a man right? If said man hooked up with a girl, woo’d her, told her what she wanted to hear, and she falls for it, guess who fault it is? “Well, you knew he was a dog before you got with him” or “Or, how could you not know he wasn’t lying”

Some men take advantage of a woman’s vulnerability or sad to say, their desperation. Instead of being responsible and saying “woah, lets take this slow” (taking it slow seems to be rocket science for some men) they use the woman to get what they want and leave. It seems now-a-days men can do what they want to/with woman and not have any repercutions.

“See, the problem with women is”…, “Man, women don’t know how to”….., “Women just need to learn how to be…”

One thing that really pisses me off is that some men say “Women have to learn how to be women and not take the man’s role” First off, don’t tell me how to be a woman, because you will never know what it is to be a woman. Thats like a horse telling a fish how to be a fish. I refuse to listen to any person of the XY chromosome to tell me how to be my natural XX chromosome self!

“You can’t find a man? Oh girl, YOU need to wear more makeup, YOU need to wear more sexy clothes, YOU need to loose weight, YOU need to gain weight ‘in all the right places” Soooooooo, I can’t get a man cause I don’t do all these things, I can’t keep a man cause I would rather wait well into the relationship to have sex, I can’t keep him because I don’t know/can’t read his body language, and he left me because I am just too clingly, too naggy, too sexually reserved, too insecure, too bold in my words, too irrational, too undereducated, too muthafuckin nice, etc etc….Thats a shame..so much blame placed on the woman. “Girrrrrl, if you don’t, there are a 20 ova women that will”

All these books out here on how to figure out a man. I mean really, why the FUCK do I have figure out a man? How about that man tells me whats on his mind instead of me attempting to read signs/body language and what have you? I mean, where are the books teaching men how to communicate their needs and wants, and understand women. If you want out of a relationship, say it; don’t start fights and make accusations. Just say that shit!

Maybe this is just a phase I am going through, but ya’ll I am truly truly tired of women taking the fall for men’s actions. Sure, there are times when women need to say (if the situation permits) “You know what, this is not the man/relationship for me, let me roll” But there are a whole lot of other times when the man can make the decision to take it slow, when the man can NOT have sex. I mean, what would it take to find a man who says “no, I would rather not have sex so early in the relationship, I would rather wait”

I remember back in the stone age, men used to compete for women to the death. They used to see who could pick up the heaviest writing stone or who could kill the biggest boar, or whatever. Now, men be like, “psh, I want her, but I ain’t bout to go all out for her, if she want me, she wants me, if not, there are 10 other breezells in the sea.”

Now..I am not saying that men should compete with each other physically, but hell, at least say “well, let me see how I can get her attention” or “let me show her that I want to be with her” I mean GOT DAMN!!!!

Now I am not saying that ALL men are like this. I do believe there are some men out there who adhere/agree with what I am saying and who are not succinct; just wanting sex or some head.

Rant/rave semi over.

F this shit!

Rant/Rave over.

So, I am sorry for all the cuss words, I usually don’t cuss in my writings..(or do I??, well, I try not too )